To begin with, I think that being ghosted by someone is something that keep me very sad and afraid because you are considered as dead although you're not. I have never been ghosted and if this should happen to me, I would feel very bad because this will mean that for someone and for some reasons I am totally dead and that I don't have any importance on this earth even if I am still on it. That offends me a lot. So I hope that this won't happen to me because, to my mind, it is one of the scariest thing.
Hello, First of all, I've never been ghosted by anyone, at least not seriously and for a long time. But I think I would react very badly to it because if she is someone who matters to me, it would hurt me not to understand why she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. To conclude, I think having no explanation is even more scary and stressful for the person concerned. PS: I'm sorry if you already received my comment about being ghosted. I think, i've sent it twice.
CORRECTION : Hello, First of all, I've never been ghosted by anyone, at least not seriously and for a long time. But I think I would react very badly to it because if she someone who really counts to me, it would hurt me not to understand why she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. To conclude, I think having no explanation is even more scary and stressful for the person concerned. Thank you
hello, So I don’t know if I’ve ever been ghosted, but actually there was this time where I could say that a friend and I « ghosted each other » . It was last year (summer 2019) and what happened is that the conversation slowly died and I thought that they didn’t want to talk to me anymore, but actually they thought that too so that was a big misunderstanding. We didn’t talk for a year just because of that. This made me really sad and if this should happen to me again with the same person I would be devastated because it feels like you lost a part of yourself, you kind of lose them forever, but i think that I wouldn’t really mind if someone else ghosted me because I don’t have strong feelings (in friendship) for anyone else but I know how hard it can be for some people, I mean loving a person with all your heart and then all of a sudden they ignore you, it hurts a lot. So to sum up, I wouldn’t recommend ghosting anyone without at least giving them an explanation because it makes people overthink about what they could have done wrong and it can make them feel very bad about themselves.
CORRECTION: Hello* I don’t know if I have already been ghosted, but in fact there was a time when my friend and I ghosted each other* What happened was* You have lost* How hard it is* for some people It makes people reflect and question themselves*
Hello, no I don't think I've ever been ghosted by anyone, and to be honest I don't think I would ever do this to anyone because I think it's kind of stupid. Usually I try to work things out if there's something wrong with one of my friends or with someone I know so that the both of us don't end up with unfinished business on our hands because I don't like this feeling when you feel like there are still things you need to say to someone and you think this person deserves to know your version of the story and what you think about it. So I'm happy that I have never been ghosted by anyone because it reminds me that I always try to talk with the person so that we can solve the problem and find the solution together.
Personally, being ghosted by someone is not a problem for me. I would never try to get the person to talk to me again or let them know that I exist. It's not my problem and I don't need to waste my time. But I can also ghost a person, probably intentionally, when I am busy or when I don't feel like talking to the person. But I don't like conflict, so either I come and explain the problem clearly and cut off all contact, or the person knows for themselves why I ghost them. But I'm very uncompromising about toxic relationships and I don't like to tire myself out for people who aren't worth it so I don't really try to understand in general.
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ReplyDeleteTo begin with, I think that being ghosted by someone is something that keep me very sad and afraid because you are considered as dead although you're not. I have never been ghosted and if this should happen to me, I would feel very bad because this will mean that for someone and for some reasons I am totally dead and that I don't have any importance on this earth even if I am still on it. That offends me a lot. So I hope that this won't happen to me because, to my mind, it is one of the scariest thing.
Thank you
Mayane Nehmé TS2
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ReplyDeleteFirst of all, I've never been ghosted by anyone, at least not seriously and for a long time. But I think I would react very badly to it because if she is someone who matters to me, it would hurt me not to understand why she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. To conclude, I think having no explanation is even more scary and stressful for the person concerned.
PS: I'm sorry if you already received my comment about being ghosted. I think, i've sent it twice.
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ReplyDeleteHello,
First of all, I've never been ghosted by anyone, at least not seriously and for a long time. But I think I would react very badly to it because if she someone who really counts to me, it would hurt me not to understand why she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. To conclude, I think having no explanation is even more scary and stressful for the person concerned.
Thank you
hello,
ReplyDeleteSo I don’t know if I’ve ever been ghosted, but actually there was this time where I could say that a friend and I « ghosted each other » . It was last year (summer 2019) and what happened is that the conversation slowly died and I thought that they didn’t want to talk to me anymore, but actually they thought that too so that was a big misunderstanding. We didn’t talk for a year just because of that. This made me really sad and if this should happen to me again with the same person I would be devastated because it feels like you lost a part of yourself, you kind of lose them forever, but i think that I wouldn’t really mind if someone else ghosted me because I don’t have strong feelings (in friendship) for anyone else but I know how hard it can be for some people, I mean loving a person with all your heart and then all of a sudden they ignore you, it hurts a lot. So to sum up, I wouldn’t recommend ghosting anyone without at least giving them an explanation because it makes people overthink about what they could have done wrong and it can make them feel very bad about themselves.
Salomé Palau. 101
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DeleteHello*
I don’t know if I have already been ghosted, but in fact there was a time when my friend and I ghosted each other*
What happened was*
You have lost*
How hard it is* for some people
It makes people reflect and question themselves*
Hello,
ReplyDeleteno I don't think I've ever been ghosted by anyone, and to be honest I don't think I would ever do this to anyone because I think it's kind of stupid. Usually I try to work things out if there's something wrong with one of my friends or with someone I know so that the both of us don't end up with unfinished business on our hands because I don't like this feeling when you feel like there are still things you need to say to someone and you think this person deserves to know your version of the story and what you think about it. So I'm happy that I have never been ghosted by anyone because it reminds me that I always try to talk with the person so that we can solve the problem and find the solution together.
Personally, being ghosted by someone is not a problem for me. I would never try to get the person to talk to me again or let them know that I exist. It's not my problem and I don't need to waste my time. But I can also ghost a person, probably intentionally, when I am busy or when I don't feel like talking to the person. But I don't like conflict, so either I come and explain the problem clearly and cut off all contact, or the person knows for themselves why I ghost them. But I'm very uncompromising about toxic relationships and I don't like to tire myself out for people who aren't worth it so I don't really try to understand in general.
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Delete*is not a problem to me
*why I have ghosted them