Saturday, 11 September 2010

RELATIONSHIP

Do you think that fidelity is the most important aspect of a relationship?

20 comments:

  1. Fidelity is an important aspect of a relationship but I think that respect and trust are the most important aspects ! To my mind fidelity is a sort of respect and if we trust the other and if we respect the person, the couple will work !

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  2. Fidelity is very important to me in a relationship because I think if there is no loyalty I do not see the point of being a couple.
    For me a relationship based entirely on the loyalty and trust.

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  3. I think all relationships (friendship, couples, parents) are based on Fidelity. Indeed, true friends, parents and others should always be there in a difficult situation. If not, then I think we need to trust anyone and counting on oneself...

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  4. "To my mind a relationship is based........on loyalty and trust."
    "should always be there in times of need" ....."we need not trust anyone and only count on ourselves."

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  5. I think that fidelity is an important aspect in a relationship but this is not the only aspect, there are trust, communication and love to.

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  6. On one hand fidelity is a very important aspect of a serious relationship, because if you cheat on your wife - or husband it means that you don't really love her- or him and , and this is an unrespectfull way of acting. But on the other hand , nowadays people don't believe in love and it's like an obligation to be unfaithful.

    Ella Aflalo TES3

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  7. Yes, i think fidelity is the most important aspect of a relationship because a relation must be based on sincerity and not based on lie and deceit.

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  8. First, I think that fidelity is an essential aspect in a relationship, because the other gives you his/her trust and you have to be reliable. If you cheat on the person once, maybe you won't get back the person's trust. Or shortly, the person will leave you for good.
    However, to certains, fidelity is not the first aim, and these people could forgive the unfaithfulness because they won't really care about the fact that their sweetheart will have spent one night with another.
    It depends on the relationship and on what it is based and the couple.

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  9. On the one hand, i think without fidelity a relationship can not be durable because it is an aspect very essential. On the other hand, loyalty has no reason to be without the love and trust.

    By Melissa Margalhan-Ferrat (because my computer has a problem)

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  10. On the one hand, i think that in a relationship the fidelity is the base. But on the other hand, i think that it's not the most important aspect. To my mind the most important aspect is the love.

    By Antoine Jacques, TES3

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  11. First, I think that fidelity in an important aspect but it there also others. If you love the person, you can forgive him/her and give a second chance, from my point of view, I think that love is stronger than everything.

    Pieric FISSORE

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  12. In my view, the most important aspect of a relation ship is the fidelity because when we are engage with a person we must respect her, so have a mistress is a bad things since when we love your girlfriend we don't think to cheat her with a other girl..
    Secondly, there are much importants aspects in a relation ship ( trust, sincerity, loyalty, etc...) still fidelity is the most important that's why it must to be fidel.

    By Mathieu Olive, TES3

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  13. "love too". "a disrespectful way" and not "unrespectfull" "maybe the person won't trust you again" "However for some people.......therefore they can forgive their lovers because it wouldn't matter if they slept/had/spent one night with somebody else......it depends on.... and the couple's agreement." "It is a very important aspect" "loyalty, love and trust are linked" "fidelity" and "love" without "the" . "But there are others" "Give him or her a second chance" "relationship" "we are engaged to a person..... so having a ... is a bad thing..... since when you love .... your/ we love ...our..... we don't think of cheating on .....there are many more important aspects..... that is why we must be faithful."

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  14. I don't think it's THE MOST important aspect of a relationship, but it definitly is important : when your boyfriend/girlfriend/husban/wife...sheat on you you feel so...betrayed. And usually, the person who cheat on you lie to you, and that makes it so harder to "forgive and forget". After that you feel like you can trust anymore that person. But it's not the worst thing this person could have done, I mean I prefer a husband who's been unfaithful once and is sorry and promise not to do it again than a man who hit me or something... it all depends on the situation and the couple, I guess but in our society we usualy are in a relationship with only one person and we're used to it so it is an important aspect of relations.

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  15. "but it is definitely"........"husband" "cheat" ..... "you feel that you can't trust that person anymore".... he promises..... a man who hits

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  16. I think that fidelity is more important in relationship because it'sIt is a sign of confidence, and a proof of love. It is essential in a couple to have the respect one of the other one

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  17. "is the most important thing in a relationship because it is a sign.... to respect one another."

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  18. I think in every single relationship, the two most important things to the key of the relation would be: honesty and fidelity. I believe those two aspects of our personality are essential when you commit to one person.

    I guess being honest with the person you love will always improve your way of life with your partner. When something is wrong, or something upsets you, you have to tell him/her! If you keep it to yourself, the person you love will never know what you truly think and that might break your couple if you don't talk to each other. Indeed I believe the key to a successful relation is communication. Tell him/her what you think, what you feel, what are your fears and joys. You must be an open book to your partner, otherwise, you'll never understand each other!
    Then also there's fidelity. If you start falling in love with another person, you must tell your boyfriend/girlfriend what are your true feelings for this person. There's no use to cheat on your partner, you owe him/her respect. If your feelings change, it's not your fault. You can't control the way you feel and it occurs in life that you start to have feelings for someone else. But you shouldn't go with that someone else without telling your actual partner first, and ending the relation. Because even if you know you'll break his/her heart, he/she will be ten times more hurt to learn that you'd have cheated on him/her. So stay honest, that's the best you can do.

    To conclude, I think we can all confirm that to be a happy couple, you must communicate and stay honest and vow fidelity to the person you love.

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  19. Hello,

    I think above all that there are various type of relationship based on various aspects.
    There are obviously the serious, faithful relations, where the fidelity is certainly the most important aspect, even if it varies according to the people. Often in these relations, it's a question like confidence. Without confidence we are afraid that the other one be not faithful. But there are other relationship where the man frequent several women and women frequent several man. In this kind of relation it is not certainly the fidelity that is the most important, for example. There are also other type on relationship...
    In conclusion I think that the most important aspect of a relation depends on the type of relation but also people concerned and of their character, the way she thinks.

    Anaïs HENOUIL TS1

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  20. Hi everyone !

    I personnaly think that fidelity is very important in a Relationship. Just think about the one you madly love being with another person !
    I think that to have a healthy Relationship with your "soulmate" you have to be able to trust the other person almost completly ( yes almost, the only person you can truly believe in is yourself! )
    I don't think i would forgive someone you cheated on me, like we say "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice on me !

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