Sunday 21 March 2021

Social manners and tolerance

 Can social manners and tolerance be taught only at home?

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  1. I think social manners and tolerance must be taught at home, but not only there, at school too, because as well as one's home is surely the thing that has the most influence over him, it's part of the school's job to complete the parent's education, and school should not rely too much on parents in terms of teaching manners and tolerance, because not all the parents grants it enough importance, and not all the parents have enough authority on their children for them to listen. On the other hand, teachers, at school, are used to teach things, as it's their job, and are used to handle difficult kids that don't want to listen. That's why home has an important role for its influence and school for its authority.

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  2. Hello !
    For me Good manners are part of life in society. They contribute to social life between individuals in a group, whether it is within the family, between friends, at school or in the neighbourhood. Obviously it is the parents who will teach the basics of politeness but
    I think that not only at home but also at school or any other place where we have to communicate with someone, good manners are learned and transmitted.
    Laurine Ristagno

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  3. Firstly, social manners and tolerance are two essential notions of our daily life .To my mind ,manners and tolerance should be at first taught at home . Parents should be the primary source of teaching manners to kids . From the childhood ,parents are supposed to learn tolerance and just by talking about this notion ,kids will know the values parents want them to have. Also , I said that manners and tolerance should at first be taught at home because kids live with their parents and therefore they are influenced by them. Indeed,when children see their parents using manners, whether with strangers, other children, or adults, they will pick up on it . On the other hand , in order to answer to the question , I think that these two notions can be completed ( and not fully learnt) in places such as at school (because children spend their whole day there) for instance. Indeed, not all parents matter about manners and tolerance , so if kids aren't learning these basic skills at home, teachers can help them to.

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      Daily lives/to teach them tolerance

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  4. In my opinion,good manners and tolerance are very important things that are part of basic education, so it is natural that it be learned at home but it can also be learned outdoors as at school simply on the street, You learn to be tolerant of others all the time, and you use good manners all the time. So for me not good manners and tolerance are learned not only at home.

    Montefalcone Nina

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  5. To my mind, social manners and tolerance can be taught at home and at school. Indeed, at school, teachers must taught social manners to pupils, such as respect and politeness. Moreover, at school, students learn tolerance because they have to accept difference to be included in a group of friends.

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  6. Hello !
    On the one hand I think that social manners and tolerance should be taught at home because that is one of the main family role.On the other hand I think that social manners and tolerance can be taught everywhere. Indeed you can acknowledge them in school for exemple or with other people such as a peer group.
    Media can also be a huge player in people’s socialization because it can help improving our critical mind and thus teach tolerance and social manners (must be a good media though)
    Salomé Palau 101

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  7. I never learned tolerance at home but rather outside, from the people I chose to associate with and from books. Of course, learning it from our parents would have been the logical continuation of parental duty, for those who know what it really is, because they influence us directly from a very young age.But some parents advocate intolerance to their children and it is important that the child decides to educate himself about this.

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  8. I obviously think that social manners and tolerance should be taught at home but I also believe that it shouldn’t be the only place. Even though it is important for parents to act in a right way in front of their kids because when children see their parents using manners, whether with strangers, other children, or adults, they will pick up on it, I also think places such as school should have a role in the education of children.
    In fact, for some students, the primary relationship they have in interacting with the world is with the teacher. This could be the case for example when some parents are very busy with work. Given that it’s really never too early to start teaching children how to be respectful It is important for teachers to also play a part in the child’s education especially at a young age.

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  9. To my mind, social manners and tolerance should be taught at home during all our life. But, when I say « home », I don’t mean only by our parents. Indeed, each of our relatives can teach us social manners and how to behave in the society. There are not the only ones, our teachers through our school years bring us some manners that we didn’t know yet. Every time we grow up, we come to maturity and we learn new lessons from people. I think that we can be taught of social manners at home but also everywhere, at anytime. On top of that, according to where we are from, there are different types of social manners so even when we travel we learn new social manners.

    Eliah Nahon

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    1. To my mind, social manners and tolerance should be taught at home during all our lives. But, when I say « home », I don’t mean only by our parents. Indeed, each of our relatives can teach us social manners and how to behave in the society. They are not the only ones, our teachers through our school years teach us some manners that we didn’t know yet. Every time we grow up, we come to maturity and we learn new lessons from people. I think that we can be taught of social manners at home but also everywhere, at anytime. On top of that, according to where we are from, there are different types of social manners so even when we travel we learn new social manners.

      Eliah Nahon

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  10. To my mind, I think social ways as well as tolerance should be taught at home.
    However, it seems obvious to me that these must also be taught in school, for example.
    I think it is important that this is also taught by people who are not part of our family in order to have several opinions.
    Indeed, it is important to make up your own mind, but we get this idea from what we learn and hear in our lives.
    Mia Schannes

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  11. Hello!
    I'm quite sure that social manners and tolerance could be taught everywhere. Obviously, the learning process at home must be the most important nevertheless it is not always true. For instance, I do not believe teachers are required to teach their students how to have manners. I consider it part of the parents’ job to teach manners, respect and tolerance - especially to older students. Reminding pre-schoolers or kindergarteners to say “please” and “thank you” in the classroom is fair, but beyond that, children should understand the basics.
    Thank you always!
    Liouba Tremeau 109

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  12. Good manners are part of the way of life in society.
    They contribute to harmonious relationships between individuals in a group, whether in the family, among friends, at school or in the neighbourhood.
    I do not believe teachers are required to teach their students how to have manners.
    I consider it part of the parents’ job to teach manners and respect - especially to older students.
    In addition to this, teachers already have many other things to do, and have their own children to whom they must learn social manners and tolerence.
    I think teachers can do some reminders sometimes if someone needs them, but it’s up to the parents to take care of that.

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  13. Good manners are part of social behaviour. They contribute to harmonious relations between individuals in a group, whether within the family, between friends, at school, etc.
    Good manners are a form of respect for others, but also for oneself. We learn them throughout our lives. I think it is up to parents to teach politeness to children from a very early age. But good manners and tolerance are also learned in our daily relationship with others. For me, tolerance is learned mainly during travels through open-mindedness. Indeed, every situation, every encounter, is an opportunity to test our humanity.
    Finally, I think that it is at home that we learn the basic rules, but it is in society that we apply them and learn from our mistakes.

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  14. You first learn about social manners and tolerance at home. It is often your parents who teach you that since they are the one who hold the most responsibility over you, and from the beginning. Education goes a long way in life and it is necessary to be taught from a young age. However, as you get older, you'll also get to learn social manners and tolerance in school. While you parents teach you the basics of it, it is by actually putting it to use and by interacting with other people that you'll get to truly understand what they are. This can be done outside of home, in societal environments, and generally in public spaces, like schools for instance. Therefore, learning about social manners and tolerance isn't something that should only be done at home, but something that should be learned thoroughly both at home and outside.

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  15. Hello,
    I think that this is parents ’s responsibility to educate and broadcast to their child how live in society, accept each other.But, in my opinion, school can too have a responsibility.Indeed, in France educational system broadcast to pupils republic ‘s values.In a nutshell, social manners and tolerance can be taught at home with parents or others members of a family but school is also a place where tolerance and social manners are taught.
    KIANGEBENI Gabrielle T03

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  16. Hello, I think that good manners and tolerance should be taught at home, but not only at home, at school too, because just as the home is surely the most influential thing on the individual, so is the school.
    Indeed, the school should not depend too much on the parental role in teaching good manners and tolerance, because not all parents give it enough attention, and not all parents have the necessary authority over their children to make them listen.
    That is why the home has an important role to influence and the school has an important role to play in giving authority.
    Diane T04

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  17. Hello,
    To my mind, if social manners and tolerance are taught to us throughout our life, it is especially during childhood that they are most transmitted to us, and not only at home but also at school.
    Effectively, for me education plays an important role in the child's development, because he builds himself according to a set of values that are not necessarily learned at home, like respect and politeness. At school, the child learn how to behave with others, how to talk to others with respect. The child's education is different at home because he is only with his family, and he adopts a different attitude with them, which only works with them.
    Obviously, thanks to their life in society, individuals improve their life conduct from day to day, and not only during childhood. For instance, at work a boss should be as respectful as possible with his employee while imposing constraints if necessary. Also, he must be tolerant and respect his employee's dignity.

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    1. Correction :
      §2 : " individuals improve their life CONDUCTS "

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  18. From an early age, children learn social manners by imitating their parents. Thus, parents have a responsibility to teach their children good manners so that they can live in harmony with others. Moreover, tolerance is a very important principle to pass on to children because we live more and more in multicultural societies where it is important to respect and tolerate others. However, not all children are lucky enough to have parents who can be counted on for this education. It is therefore important that in school these notions should also be taught so that all children have the same opportunities to progress in life.

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  19. In my opinion, good manners and tolerance can be taught at home but also at school indeed parents but also teachers can educate children and teach them many things and in particular to behave well with others. school has a great influence on the education of children it allows him to socialize, to learn but also to give the knowledge, skills and behaviors that will allow them to find their place in society, to think independently and to become free and enlightened citizens. In conclusion, good manners and tolerance can be taught everywhere, whether at home or at school.

    Chaïma Nmn

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  20. Hello. To me the question seems to be already answered. “Social” manners are rules required to interact with the outside world as a way to socialise with others so that the interaction flows in the best way possible.
    Of course these manners need first to be taught at home, but as in everything we do, whether it's math or even just walking, we cannot learn by only listening, but mostly by practicing. You wouldn't say a parent taught his child how to run just by showing them which foot goes first. It is the same with manners. They are taught at home and practiced in the outside world. When we do not act upon these manners we are often called out, by a teacher or a parent. Being confronted and scolded often marks us in a way that we make sure we will never make that “mistake” ever again and therefore, we learn the manners required by society .

    The reason we are so tolerant with children is because they are new to these rules and sometimes their parents have not been responsible enough to carry them on.
    Once an adult, the individual only, can be blamed, for he has had enough time to learn manners thanks to the outside world.
    Holding the person accountable and not its parents for his actions/manners is proof enough that manners are not only taught at home but with experience.
    Likewise, tolerance, a capacity that is lacking in children, comes with experience and the way you were raised. But the way you are raised is not the only factor, it is also your environment. Every piece of your life is meant to help you grow and become wiser and more tolerant.
    So, no, social manners and tolerance cannot be only taught at home for it will prevent the individual from learning from its own mistakes.

    Vega

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  21. Hello,
    Social manners con and should be taught at home but not only. First of all because depending on the people who taught us the very concept of social manners and tolerance can be unclear or varie.
    For example if they aren't very tolerant they are not really the one who could or should do it. So social manners and tolerance are also taught at school and in contact with others.
    When we have interactions with others we learn directly and not just theoretical. Because others will react more or less to how we act we can rectify our attitude more efficiently.
    Mellaart Irina T01

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